February 17th, 2010
Sarah Palin Please Shut Up
If you look to the upper right of this page, you will see that we are fighting against the use of the R-Word. For those who don’t know, that word is “retard” and it is offensive to those of us who love someone with a mental disability. Back in August, White House Chief of Staff Rahm Emanuel used the word to refer to liberals he didn’t like. He called them “fucking retards”. Last month, what he said was revealed and Sarah Palin immediately jumped up and demanded that Emanuel be fired. Mr. Emanuel immediately apologized and took the pledge to not use the word. He also promised to help the Special Olympics in their fight to end the use of the word.
Meanwhile, Rush Limbaugh used the word on his radio show. “Our political correct society is acting like some giant insults taken place by calling a bunch of people who are retards, retards… I think the big news is he [Emanuel] is out there calling Obama’s number one supporters f’ing retards. So now there’s going to be a meeting. There’s going to be a retard summit at the White House.” Sarah Palin’s response was that this was satire and was OK. And over in the Texas gubernatorial race, a consultant for the Republican governor Rick Perry admitted that he repeatedly used the word in a conference call. Palin’s response was to have a spokesman say that it was disrespectful. But there was no call for the consultant to be fired. So it appears that in Sarah Palin’s world it’s OK to refer to people using the R-Word as long as you are a Republican. In other words, she is using something that we are all fighting to stop for her own political gain.
So among the people who have used the word in public, only Mr. Emanuel has taken the vow to stop using the word and has promised to help the Special Olympics fight against the word, but he is the only one who Sarah Palin has publicly spoken out against and demand be fired. But that isn’t the end…
The show Family Guy on Sunday night featured the character Chris Griffin dating a young lady with Down syndrome. Palin was in an uproar insisting that the show made fun of her son. But in the show, the young lady is the tough one. She is fully empowered and bossy. She acts like a regular person not the stereotype of a person with a disability. Chris drops the young lady after she bosses him around. “I used to hear that people with Down syndrome were different from the rest of us but you’re not. You’re not different at all. You’re just a bunch of [bleep] like everyone else.” Yep, just like everyone else.
By the way, the young lady with Down syndrome, was voiced by Andrea Fay Friedman, an actress who has Down syndrome.









Elbog wrote,
Well said, friend.
Link | February 17th, 2010 at 3:19 pm
Jen wrote,
I’m really hoping that I don’t have to watch that episode as I’m not a fan of the show itself. Your description of what happened may prevent me from having to do so. Thanks Tom! Yes SP, please get with the program or stand down.
—Jen
Link | February 17th, 2010 at 7:28 pm
kathleen wrote,
Tom
I agree with almost everything that you have written here but feel I must point out that Rahm did not call the people in the room retarded, he said that their plan was retarded. In my mind that is a very different thing altogether. It is also a completely different usage compared to that of Rush who uses it as a direct insult against people themselves.
Do you believe that the word retarded has to be abolished completely? I’m not sure yet where I stand on that one. I guess I’ll hop over and read your thoughts on the r-word blog…..
I’ll end by saying that I do hope that Andrea will speak out against Sarah herself and believe that she may very well do so soon.
Link | February 18th, 2010 at 7:24 am
Tamara wrote,
Tom –
I totally agree with you on every point. I’m a liberal, so SP was never a favorite, but I did have hope that she would be a good advocate for people with cognitive disabilities. I’m extremely disappointed in her and wish that she would do as you request and just shut up.
I never watch Family Guy, but I watched this one and loved it. I loved how real the girl with DS was. My son with DS is a brat most of the time. Lovable, but bratty. And I hate the pushover stereotype.
Link | February 18th, 2010 at 7:40 am
Alyssa wrote,
The best thing for the Democrats is if Palin stays in the public. I thought the Family Guy episode was kinda funny..I liked that the character had attitude! I thought she was great!
Link | February 18th, 2010 at 7:06 pm
Elbog wrote,
The following are my opinions and perhaps not at all Tom’s.
I would recommend this:
http://blogs.suntimes.com/scanners/2010/02/family_guy_mocks_sarah_palins.html including the majority of the comments. Once again, I think we’ve ascribed too much meaning to what is entertainment aimed at the most common of our societal denominators.
Kathleen, my small opinion on word usage: Retarded is a descriptive word; usage is important (as you point out). I (Dad to a 10 year old with DS) am not opposed to it’s proper use. There is a continuum of context between accuracy and insult available when this word is used, and most thinking people can make the distinction as to the author’s motive. Calling someone’s ideas/plan retarded is poor form, as it (in this case) designates (let’s be honest!) that someone a Retard. Retard is a perjorative, prejudice-laden, derogatory offensive term.
To me, this is not a semantic argument, it is as real as it gets. We have to reason with each other, not just take positions. And that’s what disappoints me the most about Sarah Palin.
Link | February 19th, 2010 at 4:19 pm
Elbog wrote,
Sorry, my whole post got turned into a link to this site:
http://blogs.suntimes.com/scanners/2010/02/family_guy_mocks_sarah_palins.html
Link | February 19th, 2010 at 4:21 pm
tXdAd wrote,
Thanks for sharing your blog, and thanks to your response to my suggestion to the OzSquad. And I agree with your doubts SP will help the DS cause. Though exposing her contradictory positions may.
Anyway, You articulate the sentiments I hold.
Elbog has it right, I think. The using the R-word as a pejorative is not just a semantic preference. It is an offensive epithet.
My concern with SP is that she purports to be a DS proponent, but the positions she holds oppose those of DS advocates. She condones using the R-word if it is satire (which can be defined as ridicule). So as long as DS is used for ridicule it’s okay to her? Really? (snark)
She also has condemned social programs in the harshest terms castigating them as “evil”. This, I think, is not only hypocritical of her, but I can’t imagine she is a person who will advocate in the best interest of programs that benefit the disabled (e.g. federally mandated early intervention and medicaid benefits for the disabled).
Link | February 27th, 2010 at 12:13 am
Tor Hershman wrote,
For years moi hast been sayin’ “Tardre(s).”
Link | March 1st, 2010 at 12:41 pm